THE BURDEN OF EXCEPTIONALISM
That line from Half Man is striking because it cuts against one of the dominant moral narratives of modern culture: that a meaningful life requires exceptional destiny, uniqueness, or “greatness.” Lori frames the belief in a “higher purpose” not as inspiration, but as a potentially destructive form of self-idealization . But the question is complex, because belief in a higher purpose can emerge from very different psychological and cultural sources. Sometimes it is generative and grounding; sometimes it becomes grandiose, alienating, or even self-destructive. Part of what you are noticing probably has to do with the way contemporary societies — especially highly individualistic and competitive ones — construct identity. In older communal structures, meaning was often inherited: • family roles, • religion, • ritual, • class or trade, • village/community obligations, • continuity with ancestors. Modernity weakened many of those structures. What replaced them was often the idea th...